FRIDAY IN THE FIFTH WEEK OF LENT

I am led to reflect on my marriage and a key aspect of being a Christian, thanks to today’s readings. In the text, people are trying to trap others based on words or questions and answers. They refuse to believe their own eyes (what Jesus has done), and instead want to find some “legalese” way to affirm their own beliefs. During Lent, we have an opportunity to reflect upon our own experiences and check whether we are testing others or setting subtle traps, rather than looking at actions. And similarly, the passages in today’s readings remind us that our own words and promises are not nearly as important as our actions and living up to the promises we make.

Thirty-three years ago, I married my loving wife, Mary. We exchanged vows – words and promises. Those vows were incredibly important. But more important is how we treat each other every day, and how we demonstrate our love for each other with our actions.

Today’s readings reveal this critical component of being Christian. In the passage from John, it turned out that even actions did not speak more loudly than words. Those who were offended by Jesus claiming to be God did not care that he had already given them evidence with the miracles he had performed.

Sometimes words are not enough. Sometimes, actions – even miracles! – are not enough. Welcoming Jesus into our lives takes more: it requires real faith.